Fear as Motivation for Success

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Fear, The Great Motivator

Fear as motivation isn’t something you hear about often. Sometimes you will hear people say to face your fears. Most of the time people just try to avoid being scared. This is a problem because when you are pushing yourself you are going to be scared. This is completely normal. You shouldn’t hold yourself back because of an idea. Take action and use fear as motivation!

Why Fear is a Great Motivator 

Using fear to motivate yourself makes sense because it is a natural response to danger. At one point in human history we used fear as a way to keep ourselves from being injured or potentially killed. That’s not the same as modern times. Most of the things people are fearful of won’t actually cause any problems. If you look at the most common phobias (heights, spiders, and snakes), most of them won’t actually hurt you. Yes in very specific circumstances they can but it is unlikely. So when you are thinking of fears you should think of them as a way to push yourself to new limits.heights

Fear is Something That Can Either Push You or Hold You Back

When you are fearful of something you have 2 choices. You can embrace the fear and push forward or you can continue to be scared and hold yourself back. It is a mental game and I know which side I’m going to choose, what about you? Pushing yourself with fear will give you a chance to grow as a person. You’ll have the opportunity have new experiences that will create new ideas. Going outside of your comfort zone is the only way you will ever achieve more than average. Don’t let yourself fall prisoner to an average lifestyle!

Look at The Success of Others

Success comes to those who are willing to push the limits of what they believe is possible. The most successful people in the world have been fearful of something. Look at what they have achieved and know that it is possible for you to do the same. One of the best ways to learn about the fears and success of other is reading biographies. A biography is like a mini mentor that will help push you to the next level. Many people back down from fear before they should because they don’t want to fail. You must push through that fear just like all of the successful people before you!

Fear of Failure

People are scared of failure because we are taught from a young age that failure is bad. The problem with that is failure is one of the best ways to learn. If you look at babies they learn how to walk by failing. The stand up and then fall until they eventually learn to balance and quit falling. Over time learning from failure gives you a chance to turn failure into success. Failure gives you a chance to develop skills that would have been missed if you immediately become successful (not that this is bad but it’s uncommon. If you can push past the fear of failure you expand your comfort zone. Once you realize your comfort zone is larger than you originally thought you have already taken the first step towards success.

Fear of Success 

Success is a weird thing. Depending on who you ask you will get a different definition. What matters most is that you define your own success. This is where people get scared of success. It is hard to be successful when you compare yourself to others. The success someone else has may scare you and make you think you can’t achieve more. This is untrue. Don’t let peer pressure and the belief that the success someone else achieved is the only right way.Success for everyone

Success is what you make it. Your success may be having more friends or earning more money or maybe spending more time with your family. No matter what you choose, push yourself as hard as possible to achieve your goals. The scariest part of success is that you don’t know what it feels like until you have achieved it. The fear of success is really just the fear of failing to achieve your goals. Don’t let fear decide how successful you can be!

Success Comes to Those Willing to Face Their Fears

No matter what you do the next step will always cause you to be fearful of something. Don’t let this fear hold you back. You are living your life for you and you can push yourself to do anything you set your mind to. You’re the only limiting factor in your life. If you struggle with pushing yourself, you may want to find a friend or family member that will be your accountability partner. Someone that is there to push you when you’re scared to push yourself. It’s time to face your fears!

To help you get started on facing your fears we want to you find 1 thing that you are scared of and write it down. Next you should make a list of 5 reasons why you are scared. Then you will want to write down at least 5 reasons why facing your fears will make your life better. Share this list with your partner and let them work through why facing your fears will benefit your life with you. Your partner should ask “What’s the worst that can happen?” this question will open you up to the fact that most of the worst case scenarios aren’t that bad.  Last you will want to get out there and use your fear as motivation!

If you have any trouble finding an accountability partner feel free to contact us. We’re always happy to help someone achieve more!

Building Wealth With a Personal Budget

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Control Your Wealth With a Personal Budget

The secret to building wealth starts with a personal budget. Wealthy people know where their money is coming from and where it goes. That means if you want to start creating wealth you need to understand your own personal finances. Your personal finances start with a budget!

Now you may be wondering what is personal budget is. It’s really simple but sounds complex. Here it goes, a personal budget is an itemized list of expected income and expenses. See what I mean by it sounds complex. What that really means is that you record every source of income and expenses you have on a consistent basis, to make it easy lets use a monthly time frame. This is something that every wealthy person does (or should do) and it will help you grow your wealth.

Budgeting is Important

Now you can see that personal budgets are important because they let you see your personal financial health. When comparing your income to your expenses you want to see a positive number. That positive number lets you know that you are making more money than you spend. Knowing how much more you make will allow you to invest and grow that number even faster. On the other hand if the expenses are more than the income you’re in trouble and need to make changes as soon as possible.

So now you’re probably wondering “How do I get started?” and that’s where I come in. First we are going to look at just your income and expenses. Once that is figured out we’ll build out a plan to grow your wealth over time. And remember when it comes to wealth the old saying “Rome wasn’t built in a day” really comes into play. You want to let your money make money for you. The longer it works the more you get paid!

Understanding the Components of a Personal Budget

A set of gears that represents the components of a personal budget working together.

On the path to creating your budget you will need to understand three (almost four) things. They are very simple and easy to remember. First we are going to look at your income. This will be all of the money that you have coming in on a regular basis. Next we will take a look at your expenses. These will be split into two categories, fixed and variable. This is why it’s almost four things. The last thing we will look at is cash flow. Your cash flow is going to be the money extra money you have or the debt we are trying to avoid.

Before we move on, make sure you have a way to write this down. The best way to do this is by making 3 sections. One for Income, one for expenses, and one for cash flow. Split your expense section in half and label one half as fixed and one half as variable.

Income

Income is the first thing that you want to familiarize yourself with. You will want to write down every source of income you have. This can be anything from income from work to a side hustle or even investments. If you get regular payments write them down. Once you have written down all of your forms of income it’s time to look at expenses. Total them up at the bottom of the income section.

Expenses

Expenses are what you spend your money on. They are a little more complicated than expenses because there are two types. First we’ll take a look at fixed expenses and then we’ll look at variable expenses.  

Fixed

Fixed expenses are things you spend money on that you generally can’t change. This will include things like insurance, rent, utilities, mortgages, car payments, phone bills or any other bill that you are required to pay. Write down every single fixed expense that you have and total it at the bottom of the fixed section.

Variable

Variable expenses are the things that you spend your money on that you can change. This would be things like groceries, going out to eat, going to the movies, gas for weekend drives. Any expense in the variable section is something that you can easily control by choosing a cheaper option or living without. Write down all off theses expenses and total them up at the bottom of the variable section.

Before moving on to cash flow total up your expenses so you can have that number ready to go.

Cash flow

Cash flow is where you get to see how far your income goes each month. To calculate this take  your income and subtract your total expenses. This will give you your cash flow. This number will either be positive if you spend less than you make or it will be negative if you spend more than you make. Either option is fine for right now as we will work towards the highest positive number possible.

Now that you know how much cash flow you have and the main components of a budget it’s time to take a look at how budgeting will help you create wealth.

Creating Wealth with a Personal Budget

This is the point where you have enough understanding of the components of a budget to start creating yours and building wealth. There are going to be several steps to this process including reducing your expenses, investing your cash flow, creating more income, and tracking your net worth. All of these components are crucial if you want to generate wealth.

Reducing Expenses

Reducing your expenses is one of the best places to start creating wealth. There’s that old saying “a penny saved is a penny earned.” That a great way to look at things because every time you save money you are reducing the time you need to work to get to a certain net worth.

Now let’s take a look at look at those expenses I had you write down before. This is when the fixed vs variable expenses comes in handy.

Your fixed costs are hard to change. You may be able to refinance loans or reduce insurance by shopping around but that can be very time consuming but often very rewarding. It’s definitely worth seeing if you can reduce your fixed costs but know there’s no guarantee that it can happen.

On the other hand variable costs are much easier to reduce. Your variable costs are going to be things like how much you spend eating out, Starbucks, name brand foods, and clothes. These are things you can easily control. Do you have Starbucks on or restaurants on your expense list often? Start making an effort to brew your own coffee and cook meals at home. If it’s a convenience thing get a coffee pot with a timer or start meal prepping. Are clothes your big expense? You can be stylish and still shop on a budget. Start looking at thrift stores or shop less frequently. There is big money to be saved when you cut your expenses.

Think about this, if you spend $5 per day on coffee that’s $1825 per year. Spending $10 a day on lunch gets you to $3650 per year. That’s a lot of money that you could be investing in yourself. Now that you see the power of saving and cutting expenses let’s start to think about investing.

Investing

This is the step in the process where your money starts to work for you. There are a ton of different investment options out there. They can range from real estate to stocks to vintage cars and everything in between.

Investing is a very personal thing. I can’t tell you exactly how to invest your money. I personally prefer real estate, stock, and note investing. These methods aren’t for everyone. It is best to spend time learning about investing in general before you start throwing your money around. You may not like rental properties because you don’t find being a landlord appealing however you may enjoy flipping properties. You won’t know until you get educated!

Some of the best ways to grow your investments is within retirement accounts. You’ve probably heard of 401k’s or IRA’s. These are tax sheltered accounts that help your investments grow faster. These are highly recommended because of tax advantages. This is definitely a topic to talk to an accountant about.

Remember that investing is where your money can grow exponentially. It works for you but sometimes you need to make more income.

Increasing Income

Having a higher income is great for generating wealth. If your income goes up but your expenses stay the same you suddenly have more money to invest. More money to invest means more money working for you.

There are a few ways to increase your income. You’ll have to decide what is best for you before you pick any of these methods.

  • Ask for a raise at work. Many people go a long time without asking for a raise. They wait until they are offered a raise and miss out on higher income. Before you ask, make sure you have a good reason that explains why you are worth more to the company. Show them performance records or that you have been educated. Be prepared to negotiate!
  • Look for a new job. It is possible that you are overqualified for the position you are in now. If that’s the case, there are going to be many companies looking for people like you to work for them. Look around and see if you are being paid a fair wage at the same time look for open positions!
  • Take on a side hustle. Side hustles can range from entrepreneurship like starting a business to getting a second job. If you think you have some extra time after your normal job to make some extra money do it!

Of course this isn’t a comprehensive list of all the options out there to make more money. These are just a few ideas that will help you brainstorm options. That extra income is going to make your net worth skyrocket so don’t wait until an opportunity comes. Create the opportunity!

Tracking Net Worth

A representation of net worth growth.

Tracking your net worth is where all of the numbers come together. This is where you see how the wealth building. Your net worth is the money left over after you subtract your debts. The higher your net worth the wealthier you are.

To find your net worth add up all of your assets. These are things you own like houses, cars, investments, and cash. Once you have this number it’s time to subtract your debts. Your debts are going to be mortgages, auto loans, student loans, credit cards, or any other form of debt you have.

Wrapping Things Up

Do you like the number you are seeing? If you go through all of the steps over time you will start to love this number. What’s even better than your number now is your number in the future. As your investments grow and you create more cash flow this number will grow exponentially. Eventually you will be able to enjoy life without worrying about if you can make your next payment.

Now you can see how important it is to have an understanding of where your money goes. It is all too easy to skip tracking your expenses and spend all of your money. What you really want to do is get those dollars working for you. The more money you invest the faster it grows. Keep track of where your money goes and you will see why a personal budget is crucial on your journey to becoming wealth!

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